Do you know where your spouse is at this very moment? Do you know what your children are up to? How about your employees?
If you're like me at one time, you don't have a clue. Like me, you trusted that they were where they said they were going to be and doing what they were supposed to do.
Like me, there's a chance you don't know the truth.
My revelation started with my oldest son. My wife and I had an ongoing disagreement as he was growing up. I believed that children should have an expanding zone of privacy as they aged to show that we had trust in their decision-making. My wife was completely the opposite, arguing that we should closely monitor his room, his car, his computer and his calls. She didn't believe in boundaries of privacy for children, but she assented to try it my way, probably to keep peace in the household.
It turns out she was right.
After police visits and lawyer retainers and counseling appointments, I concluded that I should have listened to my wife all along. Modern life offers too many temptations, too many opportunites for poor choices, to leave children and teen-agers to their own devices. Technology, in the form of computers and cellphones, gives them greater access to a dangerous world.
But I found it it works both ways.
Determined to avoid the same mistake with our younger children, I set out to make technology work for me.
I did some research and found a solution. Children and teens love their phones and computers. In fact, if yours are anything like mine, it is almost impossible to separate them from their phones. I decided to turn this to my advantage: If they are never without their phones, then I can always know where they are. Even better, because text-messaging has all but supplanted talking, I can always know not only who they are communicating with, but what they are discussing.
How is this possible? Easy, with cellphone spy software.
I investigated several versions, most in the $350 to $400 range, before discovering SpyBubble at a much more economical $59.95.
SpyBubble is easy to install and allows you to log in from any computer and supervise almost any Android or Symbian phone or BlackBerry without being detected. They say it will be available for the iPhone soon.
You can track the exact position of the phone using Google Maps and verify whether your children truly are at the library or are somewhere else, somewhere you don't want them to be.You can see the numbers your children have called and who has called them. You can also see how many calls were made for each number, at what time they were made, and how long each one lasted.
Even better for my purposes, you can read any message that was received by or sent from the phone, even if they are later erased.
I cannot tell you how handy this has been. Already it has saved my wife and me countless headaches with our younger children, who are still trying to figure out how we know what we know. We simply tell them we are attentive parents with their best interests at heart. You might have some qualms about spying on your own children, but take from someone who has been there. You are simply helping your children avoid pitfalls and make the very best choices they can. In return you get something priceless: peace of mind.
Take my advice and check out SpyBubble.
After I told a friend of mine about it, he confided that he was having suspicions about his wife. He didn't have anything concrete, just a nagging feeling that something was off. He wondered whether SpyBubble could work for him. I urged him to talk to his wife, but he said he had and she denied anything untoward was going on. He said he had thought about hiring a private detective to follow her, but that it was too expensive. I told him SpyBubble could be a less expensive solution, if only to prove him wrong and show him he was just being paranoid.
It turns out he wasn't.
He installed SpyBubble and in just a couple of days he found out his wife had been cheating on him. He confronted her, and she confessed. Needless to say, he was devastated, but he regained some dignity and moved on with his life. After the initial pain eased, he said he was glad he did it. We know what we know, he said, and the truth is the truth.
I couldn't have said it better myself.
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